tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3607441034503290367.post4893914674009694659..comments2023-08-13T19:25:45.898-07:00Comments on East Meets West: The Consequences of Being Labeled "Bu Xiao"Teresahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12831169405732892599noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3607441034503290367.post-87866943570983717032012-11-16T16:09:43.052-08:002012-11-16T16:09:43.052-08:00This is so fascinating, T! My brother's behavi...This is so fascinating, T! My brother's behavior around my fathers illness and death struck me as un-filial to my CORE, as have things I've learned about their previous relationship. I found this SO shocking - literally, I am shocked that someone could behave like that. . . . of course, when things get ritualized and socialized, mistakes happen like your poor grandfather forced to beat his wife over a lie. Glad we are free, still, as I began, un-filial behavior to parents offends nature.<br />At least MY nature - and makes my relationship with my mother complex. I try to be correct, though all I want to do is run from the source of so much pain.<br /><br /> Happy Aloha Friday!<br /><a href="http://comfortspiral.blogspot.com/" rel="nofollow">Comfort Spiral</a><br /> <br /> ~ > < } } ( ° ><br /><br />> < 3 3 3 ( ' > <br /> <br /> ><}}(°> ~Cloudiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05853753108637831069noreply@blogger.com